Families will get to know each other and Family members will connect if they have the capacity. For these families, things will improve in relationships.
Some family members will be stretched and will be forced to grow, to mature and that will be difficult for everyone in the unit. Learning to share, learning to stay put, learning to listen, learning to take no for an answer and learning to consider the health and feelings of others will be challenging but in the long run very good for everyone.
Some family members will become very emotional. Probably just about everyone will, but some will be good at holding it in. Those who vent in anger, or tears or lamenting need to be allowed to do that in a safe way, perhaps alone in a room. Keep in mind – human emotion when fully expressed doesn’t’ last very long. One should learn to resolve feelings, distract from them when they can’t resolve them and to release them healthily. So, when they can no longer contain it, they need to blow in a healthy way.
Unfortunately, there will be a good deal of violence that comes from this time and abuse because not everyone has the capacity to properly handle emotions and actions of others.
There will be people moving in with people they hoped they wouldn’t have to live with ever or ever again.
Realizations of the kind of person you are, your strength, your character will be tried. Rose-colored glasses will come off in regards to your loved one also. If you have been unconsciously over-looking blaring issues with them the issues will come to light and you will see the truth….and many relationships as soon as they are able will fold and end. Others will grow from this and get better than ever.
Mothers and Fathers who can’t say no and who have grown children who are allowing them to do as they please, may not be able to draw boundaries with their children. This can cause a good deal of problems one being if the adult children are not practicing social distancing and aging or unhealthy parents allow them to be near even when they know it is not a good idea. Backbones will be grown, hopefully not too late.
Strangers will pull together and support each other in beautiful ways.
And if I do say so myself, there will be more gardens (I love gardens), and old skills will revive that have been left to corporations such as bread baking, cooking in general, mending or making things such as clothes and machinery.
This will be a satisfying time for those who embrace these sorts of skill development.
Just some thoughts based on what I know about human behavior.
Be kind to one another.
BTW I am willing to do a free zoom class on how to resolve emotions. If I get enough participants I will schedule it, just drop me an email or comment on the Family First Hypnosis page on www.facebook.com and I’ll keep you updated!
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