Saint Valentine’s Day has come and gone and quite a few people are thinking that the whole idea of “gone” is something they should consider. So, if you are one of them and by that I mean you are faced with the painful truth of realizing that your relationship is just not working out, then, you might like to know that you are certainly not alone. According to AttorneyFee.com, a legal referral site (https://www.attorneyfee.com/) February, especially after the 15th, is one of the busiest months of the year for divorce filings.  In fact, this time of year is usually 18% busier than the average month and the request for referrals for a divorce lawyer on this particular site jumps up 38%. 

There’s a legion of emotions you are very likely experiencing right now.  This is why getting over a break up is so difficult.  There isn’t just one feeling to get over.  You’ll likely feel every negative feeling you are capable of feeling.  Some of the emotions you’ll recognize are; anger at your partner for failing you, shame and embarrassment when thinking of the people who might negatively perceive you, and of course, there is fear.  Some of the fears might include, the fear of what might happen financially, the fear of what might happen with the children, and the fear of facing all the sadness and those long lonely nights. You had a dream and now you’ve lost it, it’s understandable feeling distraught. 

Breaking up long term relationships can be sticky, especially if there are kids, financial assets and property involved. So, you’ll need professional advice from lawyers and investment advisors. Let’s go straight to the source, The American Bar Association. Here’s their advice on divorce lawyers – https://www.americanbar.org/groups/gpsolo/publications/gpsolo_ereport/2014/december_2014/divorce_first_step_finding_the_right_lawyer/

Now, how about those financial assets and property? Once again, lets’s get the best basic advice we can from experts such as Fidelity Investments – https://www.fidelity.com/life-events/navigating-finances-during-divorce/what-you-need-to-know-about-splitting-assets

Now that you’ve done your practical homework, it’s time to look within and find the strength to leave and start all over again. But how? First, you need to figure out exactly what you ARE feeling and why you’re feeling it. Let’s get that clear so that it won’t fog up the future. You don’t want those unresolved issues leading you back to exactly where you are now, just with someone else breaking your heart a few years down the road. 

After that, you need to take care of your biggest fears, the fear of being lonely, the fear of being sad and yes, the anger that can be so frightening which comes from realizing all those promises of love have been broken.

As a Board Certified Professional 5-PATH Hypnotist, I can help you move through all of these feelings and faster than you might imagine. Who you are, and what you want will be clear and bright, not obscured or weighed down by negative emotions, remorse or frightening fantasies of the future. And I have also helped many people step back from that brink of relationship dissolution. Everyone is different and unique, and sometimes doing this work actually saves relationships, but everyone deserves to be loved and appreciated.

With all that said, we can get started on YOU as soon as you make that free telephone consultation right here on www.familyfirsthypnosis.com

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